That, I guess, is a cultural failing in addition to an economic one. I could never, ever do it. Pride would have me paying that 7% loan on that 400K mortgage until the day I died.
I hope you are in the majority but I think even if you are, that majority is rapidly shrinking. The honor and pride you seem to have a respectable amount of is not as common today as it was in years gone by. I think the sentiment on a wide scale is no longer that it's dishonroable or a pride issue but a business risk and a gamble. In business you take risks, when they pay off you profit, when they don't, hopefully you have set enough of your profit aside to offset the loss.
I think people more and more often look at it less like a pride and honor thing and more as a business thing. The bank is in a business, they planned and if they didn't plan well, well then they lost money. It's how business works. The very idea of "leveraging" (which I heard so much of in the last few years) is based heavily on the gamble. Bet as little as you can so that when things go well you come up big, but when things go poorly you limit your losses. The idea of a 100% loan I think in many peoples mind is an agreement to gamble between the bank and the buyer. The buyer agrees to pay for the right to risk less in the form of higher rates or fees, the bank agrees to accept the risk of the person going belly up in return for those higher risks and fees. In the end, whatever happens, I think the common feeling is, both parties went into the situation knowing what the possibilities were and if one side didn't hedge their bets well enough, then that's just tough cookies for the business, afterall had things gone the otherway and the gamble turned out in their favor, a hefty profit would have been made. And that's business.
So while I see what you are saying about not being able to walk away due to pride and honor, I think a lot of people will be able to just walk away because they see it as neither... they see it as a business deal they entered and a risk that was taken jointly between themselves and the bank. They willl loos money and so will the bank.
It's kind of like cancelling a cell phone contract early, sure you said you would go 2 years, but now 5 months in you want out, you pay your penaltys and you are out and free of that commitment. Is there anything wrong with that? No... and I think many people see walking on a mortgage the same "I paid my penalty, my downpayment and my mortgage are gone to the wind, so that's my punishment."
I can't count how many people suggested I buy a house and go 0 down so that in a bad caase I could do just that.
As for the car analogy... I think people defaulting on loans or walking away from cars they can't get ahead on or even selling them off in parts or to chop shops is more prevalant than we want to imagine.
In short, I think your ideals are ethically positive, but I think you give too much benefit of the doubt to your fellow man, especially in a time of difficulty.
SOMEONE paid for that house, no matter what it is worth now.
Yes, someone did, and that someone is the bank. But when the bank may fail over their loss, then the debt gets passed on to you and I indirectly as a taxpayer funded bailout. Such is the way of the economy we have. We trust the banks to take the gambles that pay off and keep our economy churning and growing. When they do, it's great... when they don't... ultimately we take the brunt of it.
And while SOMEONE paid for that house, the sentiment and guilt that comes with defaulting when that someone is not a person but a bank, or when the eventual someone is indeed people but LOTS of people, then the guilt is much more easily ignored. After all, taking $1 from everyone in the country isn't so bad is it? If the choice is "I loose $300k or eveyrone in the country looses $1" what's really so bad about loosing $1, anyone can handle that. I can't handle $300k loss now can I?
I don't think it that prices could possibly be higher in 2008-2010 than 2003-2007, in part because mose of the data is in on that already. Prices are lower now, nationally, than they were. How will 2008-2010 stack up with 2011-2013? Better question, I'm not sure.
I am not saying todays prices will be higher, (although I see that can easily be taken from how I said it) I am saying that in 2020, if you look at every house out there and pick their highest last sale, where will that fall? It probably won't be in the 90's because prices are not likely to drop and stay that low, one would think it would be in the 2003-2007 range because that's when houses cost the most... but if they all get foreclosed on and resold as foreclosures, then the highest last sales will probably be 2008-2011...
Think about it, house sold for $100k in 1990, sold for $500k in 2007, foreclosed on and sold for $300k in 2009. Last sale was $300k in 2009.
All the houses that didn't get sold during the bubble still carry their 1990 prices. The 2003-2007 prices are basically erased from the books as last sales becuase they were foreclosed on, 2009 prices still remain because if the market goes down still in 2010 and 2011 it might well not get back by 2020 so in that case, the highest prices that people paid (and are still in their loans on) would be 2009.
It makes sense in my head but it's hard to explain... basically it doesn't matter what prices were at any point in time if no one road out those prices. No buyer actually PAID $500k for that house, they paid $30k of the mortgage maybe but got out. Those who stick with their mortages in 2009 may effectively be paying the most for their houses of anyone in recent history.
Basically let's say ketchup is $1 a bottle in January, then it's $30 a bottle in feb, people buy it up but then realize, they can't afford $30 bottles of ketchup so they start returning them and stores have to sell them at huge discounts for say $10 a bottle.
Hey Ketchup is 1/3 what it cost a month ago! It's a deal! Buy!
You would think people who bought $30 a bottle were the suckers right? Nope... they didn't pay $30 for a bottle of ketchup, they paid nothing or maybe a minor restock fee to get rid of that ketchup.
The guys who paid $1 a bottle sure aren't the suckers, they got a decent deal.
The ones who paid $10 are the suckers, they paid the most of anybody. And as the price of ketchup falls back in line say to $2 over the next year, historically the people who paid the most weren't the ones who paid $30, it was the ones who paid $10...
Basically who would you rather be (not ethically or emotionally but financially):
Person who bought during the bubble and got foreclosed on.
or
Person who bought post bubble and still has that house?
Well person who bought bubble probably put down a few grand and paid mortgage for a few years. Let's say they are out $30k total.
The person who bought post bubble has a house that is probably now about what they bought it for (when I say post bubble I mean now and I believe prices will still drop, so once prices level and rise again, todays buyers will have some waiting to do just to break even) so they are essentially also down money, but come time to sell, those who bought say 2010-2013 where the real bottom was, and those who bought shortly pre bubble are the ones setting the price to sell. They bought for less than the 2009 buyer and can thus sell for less and still get a decent profit. The 2009 buyer must now take a hit on profit (or take a loss) to sell becuase the competition can sell for lower. But the 2009 buyer has no similar upper hand on anyone... the 2009 buyer is actually the one who bought at the top essentially as the ones who really did buy at the top are no longer in the game, so 2009 is now the defacto top. Thus the worst place to be and thus the sucker...
Just because a segment of the population (2003-2007ers) is taken out of the game for a while, creditors will not be without a borrow-worthy population.
They won't be without, but they will be with far less than was projected to sustain their business. Sure new borrowers will grow of age and some will still exist, but if a significant percentage drops out of credit worthiness for 7 years... that's not something that can just be made up for. And if raising rates and making it harder to borrow is the creditors solution, it is a spiral of doom.
No one to lend, too: Charge more to borrow and make it harder to borrow. This means less people to lend to, thus charge more to borrow and tighten standards to reduce risk again. It's like cutting the training budget to save costs...
Nationally, less than 1 in 300 homes received a foreclosure notice. Even if we took the worst state, Nevada . . .at 1 in 56 . . . not "everyone" is losing their home.
Remember I am not talking about everyone loosing their home, to be the new suckers, you simply have to be the one to buy at the highest prices that actually gets followed through on. So lets say of those 300 homes, the 299 aren't being freclosed on, those are likely pre bubble homes. They didn't pay outrageous prices. What bout that 1? Well that guy isnt really paying outrageous prices, he is just getting booted and loosing what he put in (probably not too much). So who is left paying the highest price? The guy who buys the house that got foreclosed on at way less than the previous buyer (deal!) but still WAY more than those pre bubble people who are still in their homes.
Basically this is what I am thinking:
Go 10 years into the future. Housing market has stabilized and recovered somewhat. Prices have climbed back up to 2001levels. If in that day you sell, who is making the LEAST money?
People who bought pre bubble are still doubling or trippling their money at least.
Those who bought bubble are foreclosed on and not selling because they don't own those bubble priced houses.
Those who but 2009 are selling possibly at a break even point after maintaining their home for 10 years...
Who got the worst deal? Not the bubble buyer, not the pre bubble buyer... the post bubble buyer...
That is why I ask if the post bubble buyer is the real sucker. The bubble buyer looks on the face to be the sucker because he bought highest... but the post bubble buyer is probably the real sucker as his price is the highest of anyone who actually pays the price.