Kumar -Glad you are happy with your decision to purchase a house. No matter how stressful all this nonsense is, it's still something to be excited about. This is YOUR house. It will look the way YOU want, have the furniture YOU want, the colors YOU want, etc. It's still an investment as well. Home prices will eventually (hopefully sooner rather than later) begin to appreciate again and you will have equity. Also remember, even though rates are "high" compared to April & May, a lot of people are still jealous of the rates we're getting as well as the prices we are paying for our home. I have to keep reminding myself of that everytime I get angry that rates jumped to 5.5% the day before I could lock. Good luck to you!
Rich & Aaron - I'm with you guys. I'm "locked-in" to the builder's mortgage company because of incentives. Free finished basement (13,000) and 12' add-on (25,000) for using their mortgage company. Hard to turn that down. Their closing costs are a little higher than my mortgage company, but nothing major. The rates are fair, but I can't really "negotiate" for them to pay 1/2 point, or buy me .25% or anything like that because I can't threaten to finance elsewhere. Being in the mortgage business and talking to people, i've heard that these "builder's mortgage company" deals will usually try to be good to you because they obviously want you to recommend them or assure others that it's ok to go with their lender...so they won't go out of their way to try to screw you. Good luck with your new construction!